Our society is way too hung up on “I’m right you are wrong.” It’s more common now for people find the pleasure to make others look foolish. Not because they “deserve it.” That’s ridiculous. People do it out of envy. Jealousy. There is no dignity or justice in that. “Oh I’m calling you out.” “Told you so!” Instead of human beings helping each other out, seeing and understanding perspective, we make others feel terrible because “its the way to deal with things.” I have done all of these things more than plenty, and I admit I’ll continue to do this sub-consciously, but I’m more aware at least to watch what I do say and how I handle things.
I read yesterday, “Good friends may not always support your decisions, but they always support you.” I’m sure that has been said many, many times. That really got to me though. With any of my friends. It’s not my life, it’s theirs. I simply wish some of my friends could at least try to understand different perspectives, communicate, be constructive, and be there for each other. I also need to improve as a friend…but still. Past few weeks, I’ve been really thinking about the people who I’ve feel I’ve always “hated.” Maybe they just want friends? Or people to like them? yet, I don’t have to, just understand them, and simply don’t associate with them. People my age suck. Everyone thinks were out to get each other. (Especially women…when you are born a female, you automatically inherit “drama.” for lack of a better term.) And I do have some really great friends. And I have friends, that are a little overboard. I hope they understand someday. And I will continue to try and understand them.
It’s very rare (based) I ever rant and type something up like this. Almost ever, but I figured at least one person will read it and understand. And if only one person does, that is okay.
I wish people were more happy and constructively honest. I’m going to work on it.
